Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Happy Anniversary to me!!

Today marks the 7th month anniversary of my freedom from a LOSER!!! To my blog readers from way back - can you believe my infamous break-up was seven months ago today!! YAY!!! Although it didn't seem like it at the time (it never does, god bless hindsight), it was the best thing that could EVER have happened to me, and I've NEVER been happier!!!

I was reading back through my old posts on the weekend - man, wasn't I a mess! But some of the things I said have all happened:

6th January: "I know I'll come out the other side, in 6 months or so this will seem silly. I can't wait to get there."

So 7 months later here we are and let me say I got there way quicker than 6 months, try 6 weeks!! Never has a girl's trip to Bali been timed better :) New 'happy memories' were created with people who will be in my life FOREVER!

15th January: My goal is to make myself SO HOT. He is going to regret ever letting a HOT, AWESOME chick like me go. I'm going to pretend I'm the happiest girl in the world. Revenge is sweet, and I think that will be the best revenge.

Hows that for a goal!! tee hee. And to pretend I'm the happiest girl - hell no!! I AM the happiest girl!!!

22nd January: "I have plans this year, I have BIG plans this year. Something to keep me focused, to keep me busy and occupied, and to make me LIVE, not just go through the motions like I have been. And although ultimately it's for ME, to rub it in his deceiptful, slimy, pathetic face."

My mum always said I was stubborn - my whole life if I've said I'm going to do something, I've done it. After all the crap, I did set some BIG goals and planned some BIG stuff, and I've done them all!!! Although even I didn't realise at the time, just HOW big!

To compete - twice!!! Even more exciting was bringing home some bling in the second comp! Does that count as making myself HOT? ;) Can't get much hotter than comp condition, right?!

For many years I've said I'm going to take a step back from the training side of my business and focus on the managerial side and marketing - to take it to the next level really. This is official now but still taking shape! Done! My job is to look after my four fantastic trainers :)

I've got my own place!!

Although I wanted these things so bad as 'revenge', I have absolutely ZERO care-factor for him, he doesn't even enter my realm of thinking and I don't give two hoots if he knows any of the above or not!

I've done every single bit of this for me :) No one else :) He was holding me back and I just didn't realise!

(Although I will admit it felt quite good when I saw his mum and sister in the shopping centre - both who I on really good terms with - and all of those things came up in the conversation! And that mum and I had just came back from a few nights in Brisbane, having a break. Just because we can. tee hee)

GO ME!!!!!!!!!!

What's next, what's next, what's next?

Oh and NO, I don't have any men on the scene. That seems to be my most commonly asked question at the moment!

Don't have one, don't want one, don't have any time for one ;)


LizN said...

Love it, hot chicky babe - you go girl!!

Kek said...

Funny, the whole time you were here, I don't believe Mr Loser came up in conversation once.

You are not only hot, but one totally together chick!

Kek said...

Oh - as for "what's next?".... geez, take a minute to catch your breath will you? LOL.

Stephanie Davis said...

Hey Selina,
I know we haven't even met yet, but am I allowed to tell you that I think yes you are hot and a beautiful successful person to boot? :) good for you girl, so happy for you, you've taken control of your life and are reaping all the rewards.

Esme said...

Good stuff Selina.

Doris's BEHAG journey said...

Hey Selina,yep you sure made it good! Smoking Hot Bod! Great business and now living in your own much cooler can it get!! Hope to catch up with you soon one day. xxD

Ann said...

You truly are an inspiration to me! I followed this blog since the break up and it is absolutely AWE INSPIRING to see how hard you worked, how far you came and what you have become!! Keep it up - people like me need your inspiration!

SeLiNa said...

Thanks Miss Lizzy - it was thanks to your subtle hinting that I got on that stage!!

Kek - yea, like, WHO??? And now I'm so used to being on the go that I don't know how to relax... ;) Should I come for another visit to recharge my batteries??

Thanks heaps Steph - we should def meet one day with you being a Brissie chick and me pretty muchly there every month it seems!! It would be heapsa fun!!!

Thanks Top End Girl!

Yes Miss Dori, would be good to see you in the flesh again. Or just hear you ;) LOL! You so have to come to the next comp (if) I compete again - your voice is SUCH an asset to anyone on stage! :)

Hello Ann - nice to hear from you :) wow, that's great that I've inspired you, I didn't realise :)

Valley Girl said...

Well done selina, there nothing sexier than a strong woman that stands on her own 2 feet & looks so god dam hot!

You are inspiring!

Kerry W said...

I wasn't reading your blog back then Selina, but you obviously made the right decision. I'm really glad that your year has worked out better than you expected, and it's been great for you! All the best with your future plans. :-)

linda said...

Excellent Selina- yeah we knew you would get through it but that doesn't make it any less painful at the time. Glad you're feeling so good now- go girl!!

ss2306 said...

Smokin', Hot and Strong - That's what you are girl. An independant woman who doesn't need a man. No-one NEEDS one, we just WANT one sometimes (hehehe). Bet you've got yourself a mechanical man right? (hehehe).

ss2306 said...

PS Still tapping my toes waiting for that brew!

Ashwee said...

You are one hot lady, and confident, sucessful and interesting to boot! Mr. Loser is surely feeling it.. and so he should- he has lost something special!

Thanks for being inspirational!